Almost everyone has at some point heard the phrase, “You can’t take it with you.” This idiom is, of course, intended to remind us that we cannot take any material possessions with us when we die. It seems to me worthwhile to flip the phrase around to ask ourselves what we can “take” with us…
Almost everyone has at some point heard the phrase, “You can’t take it with you.” This idiom is, of course, intended to remind us that we cannot take any material possessions with us when we die. It seems to me worthwhile to flip the phrase around to ask ourselves what we can “take” with us when we die. If you think that you have an everlasting soul, then there are presumably both temporal and everlasting realities. What difference would it make in our lives if we spent time regularly contemplating what we can/do “take with us” when we die?
What would it look like to add more eternal realities to our day-to-day? “You can’t take it with you” is intended to give perspective and cultivate detachment. Yet, it is only the first step. The next step is to sort out what it is that we can, in a sense, “take with us” and then to cultivate that in our lives.
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